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Go big or go home.

 

 

I’ve always been a big fan of the small gesture: bringing someone a cup of coffee, the Thinking of You text, a silly photo (probably of an animal, because DUH), a handwritten letter, a smile, an unexpected compliment.

 

Small things matter. They don’t cost a lot of money. They’re just nice. They can be just the thing to make a bad day better, to fix a sour mood, to brighten a life.

 

But this weekend made me think about big gestures. My amazing friend, Liz, drove 9-ish hours to come hang out. One way, guys. That’s a roughly 13 billion-hour trip, and it floored me in the very best way (I had SUCH a wonderful time, because DUH).

 

It made me think about the things we do for the people in our lives who really matter. It made me think about how, when we care about someone, obstacles don’t really matter. Not time. Not geography. Not any kind of distance.

 

And I’m lucky. I have a friend who reminded me that grand gestures are possible. And they’re as amazing and they are important. Sometimes in life, we often find ourselves not really believing that there’s magic in the world.

 

But there is magic. And I think that we need more big gestures and more fireworks. Yes, small miracles are still miracles. But they’re not changing water to wine. It’s so easy to take the small miracles as evidence, an indication that only small things are possible. Again: it’s not.

 

You can move a mountain if you try. If you really want to. If your heart is in it. And think about it: when’s the last time you made a big gesture? Went balls out and heart in, said screw it and did something definitive and brilliant? When is the last time you showed up in a really big way? Without being asked or prompted to? Just…because.

 

I’m not saying this has to be a romantic gesture. Mine wasn’t. (But darlings, friendships are nothing to sneeze at. Mine save my life, on the regular. And I’m lucky as hell in my people.) It can be a romantic gesture if that’s what your wild heart wants.

 

But I think, beginning in September, let’s all do something big. Let’s all do something honest and crazy. Let’s go big or go home. Let’s put up or shut up. Let’s be over-the-top and insanely present. No more sidelines and skirting around the edges. Just straight out in the middle of it all, center stage and full sunlight.

 

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  1. August 29, 2016 at 4:29 pm

    Jeeez ❤ Lol. I got as much out of it as you. As you said, I too am lucky with my people… and I like to let them know, when I can. Thanks for being the person you are, and being there always, no matter what, without judgment or hesitation. You are a gem, and if driving a mere 9 hours is enough to let you know how much I appreciate that, well, it ain't no thang, lady. Cheers 🙂

    • August 29, 2016 at 5:41 pm

      I was going to tag you in this basically everywhere, but I didn’t want to embarrass you *too* much. haha You are an amazing friend, chica. And I really appreciate you. It meant a lot to me, and I think you are damn wonderful. ❤ Also, blushing now. Thank you for the compliments. ❤ ❤ ❤

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