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your one wild and precious life*

“The timing was always wrong.”

No. Guys, this is a lie. There’s never a good moment. There’s never an ideal moment. That is a lie, a myth. Life is messy. Love is mess. Chasing after what you want? Also messy. But always goddamn worth it.

The timing is only wrong if there’s no next minute. Pick up the phone. Send an email. Write a tweet. Take a chance.

The notion that things will settle down and the time will be “perfect” is so untrue that it hurts. Nothing is ever perfect. Nothing. Not me. Not you. No relationship is ever perfect. And it SHOULD not be. Real, honest love is not the Hallmark kind. It’s not the kind that wants something. It’s not the kind in posed photographs. It’s messy and honest—and sometimes inconvenient. It knows how to argue without getting its hands dirty. It is vulnerable and honest, loyal and silly, beautiful and absolutely unfiltered. It’s something that you fight for, honor, and cherish—even at 3am and you’re tired. Even at 2pm when you’re running on no sleep. Even when you’re apart. Even when your scared.

So, who do you love? Not who are you expected to love. Forget everything that’s ‘expected’ of you—people will use that to keep you caged. Society will use that to keep you caged.

Who do you love? Who sets your soul on fire? Who makes you smile you didn’t think you could and makes you laugh when you’ve nearly forgotten how?

The timing isn’t wrong. The timing is never wrong to honor what’s in your heart.

Go on. I dare you to. I double-dog dare you.

*title taken from a Mary Oliver poem: “Tell me, what is it you plan to do / with your one wild and precious life?”
Mary Oliver

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  1. September 18, 2015 at 6:33 am

    “It is vulnerable.” true. “It is messy and honest.” It doesn’t protect us from pain. It doesn’t fix everything. It complicates. I sings in a new language of the colours we breathe through our fingertips. It is undeniable.

    • September 18, 2015 at 5:43 pm

      ❤ Thank you for such a lovely comment!

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